“Our life is what our thoughts make it”. Marriage is considered to be the most important event in one’s life. A wrong marriage can make life hell. Misunderstanding, ego-clash, adultery, violence, childlessness are some of the issues that breaks a marriage. Family provides a significant meaning to an individual’s marriage and married life. It gives a sense of belonging, a purpose for living, and also an identity for one’s presence. Marriage is one such event that initiates a person into the journey of living selflessly for the wife, kids, in laws, grandchildren and so on.
Marriage is considered to be the most important event in one’s life, and it is a principal part of most of the civilisations across the globe. It can be said that it is the concept of marriage that demarcates human beings from animals.
All tend to work directly/indirectly for the benefit of the family. First for the parents, and then for the wife and children, and the cycle goes on. A wrong marriage can make life hell, in fact worse than the real hell. It is not that the people are problematic, but it is the Match that was problematic.
Ancient munis/saints had chalked out astrological rules 5000 years back, and all of them work with 99 per cent precision. In this article we discuss few aspects on which a marriage match making is carried out.
Basis for Compatibility in Marriage or Match making is done as below:
1. Varna Kuta:
It indicates the ego development between partners. It carries 1 point out of 36 points.
2.. Vashya Kuta:
It indicates the mutual attraction and affection between the couple. It carries 2 points out of 36 points
3. Tara Kuta:
It indicates the health and well being of the couple. It carries 3 points out of 36 points.
4. Yoni Kuta:
It indicates the biological satisfaction between the couple. It carries 4 points out of 36 points.
5. Graha maitri Kuta:
It indicates outlook and objective levels between the couple. It carries 5 points out of 36 points.
6. Gana Kuta:
It indicates the temperamental behaviour between the couple. It carries 6 points out of 36 points
7. Bhukti Kuta:
It indicates family welfare . It carries 7 points out of 36 points
8. Naadi Kuta:
It indicates internal metabolism between couple. It carries 8 points out of 36 points.
But these are not sufficient to indicate a smooth marital life. Many astrologers make the mistake of matching just the stars, and ignore the other aspects of horoscopes. This leads to errors, where people find problems in marriages even after the horoscopes were tallied. These kinds of incidents invariably make the people to lose belief in this wonderful and mysterious science.